What women talk about vs. what ends up in their chart.
A 2026 study compared 577 top Reddit menopause posts with 646 clinical notes. Mood and emotions came up in 77.3% of posts but 26.0% of notes. Brain fog and memory: 19.6% vs 4.8%. Hot flashes went the other way: 18.5% vs 46.6%. Mood and memory dominate what women share, but show up far less in their notes. So bring your own record.