"You're too young." "Your labs are normal." "It'll pass."
Three things women hear in perimenopause, flipped over. It can start as early as your mid-30s. Hormone tests aren't reliable for diagnosing it because levels swing so much. And in the SWAN study, frequent hot flashes and night sweats lasted a median of 7.4 years. If you've been brushed off, you're not imagining it.